Some weeks ago I came across this article on domestic violence written by Roel Raymond which was published in an edited version on Groundviews. She spoke of her former life with a husband who use to beat her and subject her to many forms of domestic violence while she endured it with her son. I do not know her personally, but have seen her at certain events, a beautiful woman with her son and it …

I have not written in a while. Partially due to the work load getting to me that before my fingers type out anything I, the great insomniac fall asleep of late. And then again I have been publishing blog posts a lot, in my head. When I feel I need to express my thoughts I tend to mentally type it out, and then edit it and then publish it as well. And by the time …

It’s been a few weeks since I last posted. Guess I did not have much to complain on. Love is good, sex is good, life is good. Kinda running out of those things to rant on. Ranting is an art that gets fed on by bad relationships, when they run out, I guess I need to find seriousness and depth to talk of.
It is kind of funny how many times I have told my boyfriend …

I was talking to a friend last week and he asked me this question. “Why not insist on a condom? Why do you have to go for pills?”(as in contraceptive pills)
The guy got me thinking. Why the hell does the woman have to be the one going through the pill intake when the man can use a condom. I remember all those statements of “oh I do not like condoms”, “ condoms are evil”, “it …

I was thinking of what I should write this week, till a friend of mine called and asked me questions on pregnancy. (of late people presume I am an expert on pregnancies, I am clueless as to how the assumption was created, but it is existent, so I am forced to deal with it)
So yes, he goes on to tell me, that his girlfriend “might” be pregnant. And then goes onto add that he never …

There is nothing funny about the title. I am very serious about this and I am sure many of you out there are too. It was over a coffee with my boyfriend I realised that this is the most efficient way of getting pregnant. (No I was not about to give him a blowjob) Why so? (on the realisation factor of course) I was for a moment pushed into contemplating on the matter, simply because …

So far I have thought of sex separately and then climate change separately. A conversation with Hans changed this. For a change the two elements combined and a link was seen. All elements that I use to analyse in my head such as sex, sexual rights, expression of one’s sexuality and then the reproductive rights, all fell in line and came into perspective with the topic I usually speak on and work: climate change.
Where is …